glass dildos, check reviews and the materials of the product you’re buying. On the flip side, water can also dull the intensity of a toy’s vibrations. “One of the reasons many people don’t like to have sex or use a vibrator in water is because it’s harder to feel things—but for somebody who is very sensitive, it could actually work to their benefit,” Laino adds.
“You won’t need to keep on turning and twisting the vibe to hit your sweet spots,” says Sandra. “I’m a lazy masturbator, and the Dame Arc seemed to appeal to that side of my life perfectly.” Still, on the design aspect, we loved the dual-sided head (image below) because it made Arc versatile. For people who prefer pinpoint stimulation, the beak side lets you target specific points on the clitoris, while flipping the head exposes a more expansive backside for more widespread vibrations. We’ve reviewed numerous brands over the years, but none comes close to We-Vibe’s brilliance and effectiveness.
Wand massagers are renowned for their strength, versatility, and ease of use. Unlike smaller vibrators, sex wands are designed to provide deep, rumbly vibrations that can help relieve muscle tension and provide intense pleasure. With many different types of wand vibrators on the market, including compact versions like the mini wand vibrator, or smart versions like the Lelo Smart Wand 2, there’s something for everyone.
But if you like the feeling of receiving oral sex, you’ll want to invest in one of these high-tech toys. They use sonic air technology to stimulate the clitoris through pulsations as opposed to vibrations. This sensation often feels like receiving oral sex, says Richmond, but is less ideal if you like to grind against your toy. If you’re new to vibrators, you might want to try a bullet, says Laino.